"Christopher's mommy is dying, but he doesn’t fully
understand death or many other things. Christopher is autistic. Born
with Fragile X Syndrome, a genetic cause of autism, Christopher, 10,
struggles to understand simple things, let alone things that would
confound most 10 year olds like death and dying. What Christopher does
understand is love and the warmth of hugs. Christopher adores animals.
Because of this, Claudia, a single mother who is diagnosed with ALS, a
terminal neuromuscular disorder, applied for a multipurpose service dog
from 4 Paws For Ability in Xenia, Ohio. Just before Christmas, they got
great news: Christopher had been approved! "
Once Upon a Time.....
Music: Mark Schultz "He's My Son"
Why a Service Dog???
Since 2003 I've been pondering the idea of Service Dogs
(SD). Of course I was aware of the support that Guide Dogs for the
Visually Impaired and Mobility Assistance dogs could provide. I had also
heard about Seizure Alert Dogs and dogs that were trained to help
individuals with Hearing Impairments. Somewhere along the way a few
articles made their way across my path telling about how Service Dogs
were now being trained to support those with "Invisible Disabilities"
like Autism, Psychiatric and Behaviorial Disabiliteis. Dogs were even
being used to aid those that suffer from Schizopherenia and Panic
Disorder.
The more I learned about the skills that were taught to
dogs which are trained to help children with Autism...the more excited I
became about the possibilty of a SD learning to assist Christopher.
There was only one problem... we were renting and had no yard suitable
for a dog.
After reading several books and researching online I
decided that we should submit an application to an agency in Xenia,
Ohio, called 4 Paws for Ability. They were the first agency that began
to train dogs to help children with Autsim, among other disorders. The
Executive Director, Karen Shirk, started the agency in 1999 after
experiencing firsthand the limitations a disability could bring. Karen
is affected by a Myasthenia Gravis and utilizes a wheel chair. Her first
Service Dog, Ben, became the model she developed to begin what is now a
lifeline for many families.
Every 4 Paws dog is trained for several weeks at a
correctional facility. This arrangement is a win-win situation for both
the dogs and the inmates, who are able to experience unconditional love
and acceptance, as well as commitment to another living being, sometimes
for the first time in their lives! You can see videos of inmates
training the dogs on the 4 Paws website as well as read life-altering
testimonials by these inmates.
4 Paws doesn't stop there: In the U.S. a Service Dog can
only be certified for Public Access by receiving a minimum of 120 hours
of training over a period of no less than six months. The dogs trained
by 4 Paws, receive upwards of 500 hours of training, with the human
handlers being trained for over 60 hours. Very few Service Dog agencies
even allow dogs to be placed with individuals under the age of 18.
Because of the laws pertaining to this field, an adult must be the
"handler" and accompany the dog and child at all times when the dog is
out in public "working". 4 Paws has extensive experience in certifying
parent-child "teams" for public access working Service Dogs.
How will a Service Dogs help Christopher? Several ways:
this special animal will provide him with an opportunity to safely
access a variety of environments which will result in improved
communication and social skills. The dog's presence will offer a calming
influence and provide a sense of security for Christopher. Emotional
outbursts will occur less often. In a nutshell: Christopher will have
more independence and autonomy, and become a viable part of the
community at large.
The other factor that convinced me that 4 Paws was the
right agency for us is that the dogs receive case-specific training.
Beyond the minimum of 6 months of Public Access training, several
additional months of training will take place using video of
Christopher. 4 Paws provided us with a script of scenarios they wanted
us to video tape. These situations included Christopher going to the
doctor, playing, "self-stimming" (vocalizing "eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee",
rocking, pacing and hand-flapping to name a few), having "meltdowns" and
interacting with those close to him. This video then becomes the tool
used to communicate to the dog what signals it will learn in order to
assist its "human". In fact some of Christopher's "self-stimming"
behaviors will become the "signal" or "command" taught to the dog. The
dog is then trained to interrupt the behavior by nuzzling the child or
putting a paw on the child. Also, many children like Christopher require
deep pressure to calm down overly-aroused regulatory systems. For this
reason a larger breed of dog will likely be chosen who will provivde
much needed weight to help calm Christopher by lying on top of him! Up
until now, Amy or I have "squished" Christopher on the couch by making
him the middle of a sandwich or used "burrito wrapping" with a blanket
as a calming technique.
Another significant concern is Christopher's safety:
both physical and emotional. Because of his impulsivity, he often darts
out into the street or a parking lot without looking. Christopher's dog
will be trained to be tethered to him with a dual leash attached to me
or Amy. This will afford an opportunity to keep Christopher from running
out into danger. Additionally, Christopher's dog will be specially
trained to specifically track Christopher in the even that he were to
wander away. This is especially important since Christopher has no sense
of danger and is now tall enough to reach the "flip locks" on all our
exterior doors. Christopher's emotional safety is intertwined with a
great sense of vulnerability. Children with autism and developmental
disabilities are easily taken advantage of and exploited. Christopher is
more social than most children with autism and while he might be timid,
it does not take much for him to make a friend. Some estimates state
that 90% of individuals with Developmental Disabilities will be abused
at some point during their lifetime. It is my hope that while a service
dog will provide a "social bridge" for Christopher, especially with
other children, perhaps the presence of a large dog will deter someone
with less than honorable intentions.
Last, but certainly not least for Christopher, a calm,
intelligent service dog will be a reassuring friend who can allow
Christopher to communicate his increasing anxieties and worries as my
illness progresses. Christopher has great difficulty verbalizing
emotions. Without requiring words, a service dog can provide immense
emotional support and will be a consistent comforting presence to be
beside Christopher when I die.
The BONUS for us is that 4 Paws will also train our
"multipurpose service dog" to assist both Christopher and myself with
mobility tasks. The dog will be trained to open lever-handle doors, push
buttons (elevators and the button for automatic doors) and retrieve
objects. When Christopher and I are both out in our wheelchairs (he uses
his for extended outings due to fatigue from his very low muscle tone)
these tasks will be invaluable! All you need to do to recognize this is
to spend an hour or two in a wheelchair (available for free use at your
local store... just TRY shopping from one! I dare ya!).
Christopher can tell you "Mommy" has "ALS". He knows it
makes my muscles tired. He also knows that it means that I will die.
What he doesn't know is what life will be like "without Mommy".
Christopher is scared. So am I. ALS (Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis or
“Lou Gehrig’s Disease”) has an average life expectancy of 3-5 years.
I've had ALS for 3 years. Won't you help?